4 Totally Simple Ideas For Mother's Day

Mother's Day is May 10--a time to honour your mom, and, if you're a mom yourself, to feel proud of yourself and of those little ones you've brought into the world.

We are living in a time, unfortunately, in which children are often shunned or thought of as a meagre nuisance rather than the next generation of human beings on this earth. Often it is moms who are the bedrocks of their homes, of the raising of their children, of nurturing creatures who rely on them for nourishment, love, attention, and loving arms (indeed, men are encouraged to step-up and be loving, nourishing, compassionate dads, but we'll leave that for a future post). 

In the midst of all the market-pressure foisted on consumers on occasions such as this, here are some simple ways you can honour your mom, and/or wife, on Mother's Day:

1. Telling her how much you love her: We often don't hear enough how precious we are, how loved we are. And we often believe that our moms and/or wives simply know it to be true. Maybe they do; maybe there are ways you show your love everyday--but speaking it, speaking words of honour and blessing are so important. 

2. Write it: There are so many greeting cards out there that speak for you; but I encourage you to venture on your own and try out a blank card and write your own words. If there is a quote you love, or a verse of scripture or wisdom, include it. This is your time to express YOU and what you feel and think about your mom. No, you don't have to wax Rumi on the card (though he might be one to include as a quote), simply your words in your own voice will do.

3. Visit: If your mom is close by, go and see her; bring flowers or nice teas she likes or coffee and pastry. Spending time with your mom, looking after her goes a long way in letting her know she's precious and appreciated.

3. Phone call: If your mom is kilometres away--too far for a visit--call her up and spend time on the phone. Speak words of love and encouragement to her. Let her know how precious she is. 

4. Forgive: Many times over the course of one's life relationships between parents and children can become strained. Sometimes anger or bitterness can creep in severing relationships. If you are in this predicament, I encourage you to find forgiveness in your heart, and through that find peace. This Mother's Day could be a time of breakthrough for you; of healing in your heart and in your relationship with your mother or daughter--but you must make the decision to forgive and let go of the pain. You can do it.

Motherhood is a beautiful thing; something to be honoured and nourished with love. It's a time to give back for all the love and care we received as children. If there is great hurt and pain in your life from your mother, there is forgiveness; you may not be able to change your mom, but you can bring healing to yourself through forgiveness.